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Feeling weighed down
Feeling weighed down

My relationship with love feels open & expansive, not scary & lonely.

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Lilli BewleyJuly 12, 2021
Pity & Love
Pity & Love

How are love & pity similar? How are they different?

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Lilli BewleyJuly 10, 2021
Stuck in past & future
Stuck in past & future

It’s VERY clear how being stuck in the past or future affects our lives.

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Lilli BewleyJuly 8, 2021
Boundary Review
Boundary Review

How’s your boundary review going?

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Lilli BewleyJuly 6, 2021
Unfair
Unfair

I remember vividly the feeling of it being unfair.

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Lilli BewleyJuly 5, 2021
Turning on Intuition
Turning on Intuition

It’s 100% normal to not trust our intuition because our experiences with intuition have felt vulnerable, scary, & not cherished or protected..

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Lilli BewleyJuly 3, 2021
Forgiving ourselves is hard
Forgiving ourselves is hard

When was the last time you surrendered to where you are in your relationships right now?

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Lilli BewleyJuly 2, 2021
I gave up on love.
I gave up on love.

Hey beautiful woman, you deserve love.

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Lilli BewleyJuly 1, 2021
What we attract
What we attract

It’s never too late.

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Lilli BewleyJune 30, 2021
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***Trigger Warning***

I remember when I read “Facing Codependency” by Pia Mellody, and then I read it again. And then again.
What was clicking and making sense inside of me felt true, but it was also scary.

I don’t talk about this
Ever wonder why something you’ve tried didn’t work?
Or why you can’t seem to finish a book or course?
Or why the tactics & symptom relievers help for a little bit but don’t seem to have a lasting effect?

Truth bomb, the e
I would be lying if I said that the past couple of weeks have been easy.
I have been stretched, pulled, & contorted.
I have reached the heights of frustration, sadness, & shame.

Sometimes I get a little too deep in my healing journey to real
Queens, that feeling when you have overextended yourself & continue to do it, the sick feeling you feel, run-down, & tired. 

It seems to extend throughout your whole life.
The pattern of not knowing when to stop, not knowing where you begin
I get asked this often: how do I know when I am ready to leave?

The paradox here is that asking this question is easy, but actually taking any action is sometimes hard. (And if it’s too easy, that’s another post.)

Do you ever wonder why
gut check.
when we feel controlled in our relationships, we feel alienated.
alone.
distanced.
distanced from that person and from ourselves.
…
control can be outright through unreasonable ultimatums and demands.
control can be juuuusstt under