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Rejection
Rejection

Feeling rejected when our significant other or close friends spend time with others feels really weird.

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Lilli BewleyApril 27, 2021
Today's Questions
Today's Questions

What if you were right where you needed to be?

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Lilli BewleyApril 23, 2021
When is now the best time to start living?
When is now the best time to start living?

I used to be convinced, “I don’t care what other people think.”

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Lilli BewleyApril 22, 2021
Honoring Your Desires
Honoring Your Desires

You don’t know until you know.

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Lilli BewleyApril 21, 2021
Authority Probs
Authority Probs

Real talk - I used to have a major problem with authority.

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Lilli BewleyApril 19, 2021
Passion
Passion

I lost my passion.

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Lilli BewleyApril 17, 2021
I seek to trust myself deeply.
I seek to trust myself deeply.

There may be a part of you that wants a deep connection.

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Lilli BewleyApril 16, 2021
Self-Love
Self-Love

What if your self-love was as simple as expressing your true, heart-felt emotions? Dreams? & Desires?

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Lilli BewleyApril 15, 2021
Joy is a forgotten emotion
Joy is a forgotten emotion

When everything in life is too serious & we can’t find pleasure, depression & withdrawal can set in.

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Lilli BewleyApril 13, 2021
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***Trigger Warning***

I remember when I read “Facing Codependency” by Pia Mellody, and then I read it again. And then again.
What was clicking and making sense inside of me felt true, but it was also scary.

I don’t talk about this
Ever wonder why something you’ve tried didn’t work?
Or why you can’t seem to finish a book or course?
Or why the tactics & symptom relievers help for a little bit but don’t seem to have a lasting effect?

Truth bomb, the e
I would be lying if I said that the past couple of weeks have been easy.
I have been stretched, pulled, & contorted.
I have reached the heights of frustration, sadness, & shame.

Sometimes I get a little too deep in my healing journey to real
Queens, that feeling when you have overextended yourself & continue to do it, the sick feeling you feel, run-down, & tired. 

It seems to extend throughout your whole life.
The pattern of not knowing when to stop, not knowing where you begin
I get asked this often: how do I know when I am ready to leave?

The paradox here is that asking this question is easy, but actually taking any action is sometimes hard. (And if it’s too easy, that’s another post.)

Do you ever wonder why
gut check.
when we feel controlled in our relationships, we feel alienated.
alone.
distanced.
distanced from that person and from ourselves.
…
control can be outright through unreasonable ultimatums and demands.
control can be juuuusstt under